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Most of us just fall into a career, without much thought or planning. Usually this is a decision we make when we are 18 to 20 years old, before we really understand what work is all about. Mostly, it is about spending a lot of time doing something. It's like being married. You are probably more married to your work than your spouse, at least as far as how much time you spend there. You also tend to get married to your work because the easiest job for you to get is one very similar to the ones you have had. One job leads to another similar one and all of a sudden, it is ten years later and you wonder how you got there.

Okay, but what if you don't know what you want?

Don't feel bad. You are definitely not alone. Most of my career coaching clients felt the same way. They felt embarrassed and stuck. Through career testing and coaching, they were able to clarify what they want. This is mainly a matter of looking at yourself objectively, which is not easy, then taking a broad look at what is out there in the marketplace and putting the square peg in the square hole. For more information about how to do this, see career planning.

I'd like to change, but I don't want to start at the bottom!

My experience is that most people can increase their career satisfaction without major retraining, taking a big cut in pay or starting over. The reason for this is that you probably have many "general transferable skills". These have to do with knowing how to get things done in the real world. How do you acquire these skills? Not in school, for sure. You learn them in the school of hard knocks, through years of experience. These general transferable skills account for most of what it takes to do any job. The specific skills for any job can be learned fairly quickly in most jobs, usually by reading or taking some courses. Since you already have most of the skills to do any job, why start at the bottom?

Yes, but in the want ads they list educational and experience requirements.

True, but if you know how to market yourself effectively, this may not be as big an obstacle as you imagine. First, you can "package" yourself to highlight your transferable skills rather than just your job history. Let's say a teacher wanted to get into sales. Instead of saying "teacher", talk about skills you have demonstrated, like communication, persuasion, planning, organizing and being self-directed. This will help the employer see the relevance of your background. You can also incorporate these in your resume. Secondly, you can present your message to the right person, which is not the human resources interviewer, but the manager or supervisor. This can be accomplished through networking and "advice interviews".

What if there is a licensing requirement for the job?

Well then you will obviously need to jump through the right hoops. However, if you are confident that this new career would work better for you, it might be worth it. Any expense you have in making a change will be amortized or spread out over the rest of your life. Most people make more money, have more job security and actually live longer doing something they love that really fits them. Job satisfaction is a big part of life satisfaction and of emotional well being.

What is the secret of career planning?

Going back to the marriage analogy, would it make sense to marry a rich person you don't love? Maybe for some people, but it probably gets old fast. Most of us are like that with our work, just doing it for the money. The best work is something you would do anyway, even if you didn't have to work. The secret of career planning is to tune in to what you love, what turns you on, what you could be passionately involved with in your life if money were no object. Then you try to find way of making money doing the things you love. The neat thing is that there are so many ways of making a living now that most of us can find meaningful work. This actually makes practical sense, because you will be more enthused and motivated doing something you love. As Confucious said, "If you find a job you love, you will never work a day in your life"!

To learn  more, click here on CAREER PLANNING.

 

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